" A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance....."Proverbs 15:13
I remember the day John Anthony got on the school bus for the first time like it was yesterday......and it was 22 years ago. He was fascinated by school buses and whenever he would see one, he would say "big big bus!!". He was excited to finally be able to ride the bus! I was almost 7 months pregnant with Jeremy at the time. As the bus pulled away with my little 5 year old, tears streamed down my face. I had all the "normal" worries that mothers have when their first child goes off to school for the first time. Now that little boy is a grown man and has his own child and will be facing the same adventure in several years.
I must confess that I don't have a clear memory of Jeremy's first day of school and I think it is because we enrolled him in K-3 when we was 3 years old and his grandmother drove him to school and I was probably at work. Both boys did fine in school. John Anthony seemed to like it a little more than Jeremy, however.
Twenty-two years after sending my first child off to school, I am now sending my 3rd child off to school. We enrolled Shane in K-4 at United Christian Academy. His first day was Monday, August 24th. Shane doesn't like school. He LOVES it. I have never seen a child more excited to be going to school than Shane. He woke up twice during the night on Sunday (he rarely ever gets up during the night). He could hardly eat his breakfast on Monday morning. Those who know Shane know that this is a RARE thing as Shane is a hearty eater. I drove them, along with Nicholas, Sharon and Kelsey, to school. Kelsey and Sharon walked Nicholas to his classroom and Abigail and I walked Shane to his. He put his book bag, lunch and snack in the appropriate places that was shown the previous week during orientation, hugged me, gave me a kiss and ran off to play. I must be getting tougher in my old age as there were no tears. Honestly, I think it was because I knew how happy he was to be there and I know that Abigail deserves some "one-on-one" time with Mommy as she has not had that since we brought her home almost 5 months ago. Abigail was disappointed that she could not stay and wanted to know where her classroom was. However, we enjoyed the day together and it was pretty quiet in my house for the first time in a long time!
After 3 days of school, Shane continues to come home excited and wakes up rearing to go to school each day. I pray his enthusiasm continues for the next 15 years! I am amazed at how well Abigail has integrated into our family. It is like she has been with us for years and not under 5 months. She and Shane fight like they have been together forever but love each other the same way also. Hugs and kisses come natural to her now and she says "I love you" first without prompting. She is a funny and smart little girl and I am so thankful that she is a part of our family. I miss Luci, John and Melissa more than even I imagined.


